“When Luck Won’t Show Up, Here’s How to Go Find It”

Dear Friend,

Luck. That slippery little thing. Some people seem to have it falling into their laps like free samples at a grocery store. Me? I’ve been wandering the aisles with an empty cart, wondering where everyone else is finding the good stuff.

But today, I’ve decided something: I’m done waiting for luck to find me. No more sitting on the sidelines, crossing my fingers, and hoping the universe throws me a bone. If luck’s playing hard to get, I’m going full detective mode and tracking her down myself.

Here’s the plan to reclaim my life’s sparkle and flip the odds in my favor—even on the gloomiest days.

1. Redefine Luck: It’s Not What You Think

For the longest time, I thought luck was this magical force, like a lottery I wasn’t invited to play. But you know what I’ve learned? Luck isn’t just random—it’s a mix of preparation, mindset, and action. It’s the ability to see opportunities, even when they’re wrapped in chaos and sprinkled with uncertainty.

So, step one is this: stop waiting for a miracle and start creating one. Luck is more like planting seeds than winning jackpots. You’ve got to do the groundwork first.

2. Start Saying “Yes” More

If I’m honest, I’ve been living in my comfort zone, all cozy and predictable. But comfort zones are where luck goes to nap. Lucky things happen when you take risks, try new things, and say “yes” even when your brain is screaming, “This might be a bad idea!”

Saying yes doesn’t mean agreeing to everything—it means opening yourself up to possibility. Join that club, sign up for that workshop, talk to that stranger. Who knows? Your next big break might be hiding behind an awkward “hello.”

3. Create Your Own Momentum

Let’s face it: luck loves movement. It’s not going to hang out with you if you’re stuck in one spot, binge-watching shows and waiting for something magical to happen. (Trust me, I’ve tried.)

I’m making a commitment to keep moving, even when I don’t feel like it. Baby steps count. Sending that email, updating my résumé, writing a single page—they’re all small wins that build momentum. The more energy you put into something, the more you attract opportunities.

4. Adjust the Mindset: From “Why Me?” to “Try Me”

Here’s where I’ve been messing up: every time something went wrong, I’d think, “Why does this always happen to me?”But that mindset? It’s the luck equivalent of walking around with an umbrella in a sunstorm—it blocks out the light.

I’m flipping the script. Every setback isn’t the universe picking on me—it’s a redirection. Didn’t get what I wanted? Fine, maybe there’s something better coming. Missed an opportunity? Lesson learned for next time. Life’s plot twists are just adding depth to the story.

5. Build Relationships (Because Luck Loves People)

I’ve noticed something about lucky people—they always seem to know the right people at the right time. But here’s the kicker: they didn’t get there by accident. They built relationships, made connections, and nurtured them.

So, I’m taking a page from their book. I’ll put myself out there, be genuinely curious about others, and build a network of good vibes and shared dreams. Luck often arrives in the form of people saying, “Hey, I thought of you for this opportunity!”

6. Do the Woo-Woo Stuff (It Can’t Hurt, Right?)

Look, I’m not saying crystals and vision boards will fix everything, but there’s something powerful about focusing your energy on what you want. Manifestation, gratitude journaling, lighting a candle and declaring, “Luck, you better show up!”—it all adds a little magic to the grind.

At the very least, these rituals remind me to stay hopeful. And hope? That’s half the battle.

7. Find Joy, Even When It’s Hard

Here’s the thing about luck: it doesn’t always look like a big win. Sometimes, it’s a small moment—a good laugh, a kind word, or a free coffee from the barista who accidentally made an extra. The more I notice those little moments, the luckier I feel.

So, I’m choosing joy, even on the bad days. I’ll dance in my kitchen, celebrate tiny victories, and treat myself like I’m already the luckiest person alive.

Final Thoughts: Turning Doomsday into Dream Day

Luck isn’t about avoiding the bad stuff—it’s about staying open to the good stuff, even when the sky looks like it’s falling. It’s about showing up, trying again, and laughing through the chaos.

This year, I’m reclaiming my life, one tiny win at a time. I’ll hustle, dream, and maybe even trick luck into thinking I’m too fun to ignore. Because if luck won’t come naturally, I’ll just be too stubborn to give up.

Here’s to the hustle, the hope, and a whole lot of persistence.

Yours,
Butter